Time for a change

It doesn’t matter how much you calculate time, it just keeps on ticking by. No amount of “2 years, 5 months, 4 days, 6 hours, 20 minutes, 15 seconds” can literally just stay as “2 years, 5 months, 4 days, 6 hours, 20 minutes, 15 seconds”. Its all gone in the next second, next minute, next – you know! Or more likely it recalculates itself and turns into another digit.

So, who am I to say that the exact person I am right now, will be the exact person in the next second? Ok, maybe the next minute, the next hour, the next day …you get the point.


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A’ite, getting back to the main point. We change. Constantly. We are never the same person we are or were in any given second or moment.

True. Whether we are one person or another, our preferences, our choices mostly the same. But, we are constantly changing, developing, growing up further. Till in the end, of course, we meet our ultimate destination, but in between, we are never settled – not even as ourselves.

So, who are we to decide how a person is like when we ourselves are so unstable? Even when there is a tiny moment of self-doubt, you can realize that we are nothing but tiny creatures living on giant comet travelling in space WITH time turning us greyer.


Another orbit around the sun

Around this time last year, I was looking forward to Blogging 101, the blogging course for newbies like me (as well as the old bloggers; I had seen some bloggers taking up the course for the 2nd or 3rd time as well). If you see my first ever blog post, it will be dated January 5th 2015. My first ever post and my first ever course.

A year ago.

A year has passed and it feels just like yesterday, that I was all hyped up and excited, checking and re checking the course page. Reading comments and replies of fellow blogging collegues and waiting till the first assignment was posted so that I could get the push to start off blogging.

So much has happened. New things adopted, old responsibilities continued or left out. Letting go of those who moved on, by moving on myself, and embracing the company of the ones in the present.

Change is the punch in your face which is, and always will be the only thing that is constant in life. Its up to you how, and how well you take that punch.


Changes and life


The difference a mere 1 year could make, 4 years makes it even more different.

Everything changes – not as if it never were before – but all those memories getting dragged along with us.

What memories?

A year old child turning 5 and running around the house. Elders getting old. Healthy, happy people, suddenly not any more the next day. Marriage everywhere-resembling salt and pepper being showered on a fried egg.

Everyone gets busy in their lives. Everyone has their own issues, responsibilities, their own lives.

And us?

Well, we go through all this too. And at times, become their narrators.

Hope for the best. Forgive. Be kind and patience. Being gentle, in my opinion shows that you are an honourable person. Love (not just the romantic love *rolls eyes*). Talk. Have conversations, and try to get involved in them. Learn and gain so much knowledge that you can show the world that there is so much more that they can know. And learn from others as well. Pray, for yourself and others as well. You can never know how much more they need it than you do.

I am currently in my “home” town; well, the country that my passport is from. And A LOT behind from blogging.